Sometimes I don’t know whether I’m being too sensitive or if other people are taking it too far. I mean I guess if it bothers me then it is other people taking it too far. But today, for example, he kept saying things to me which kind of hurt my feelings, and then he would pass it off as banter. He later said that it was because we’d “got to that stage in our friendship where we’re close enough friends to be mean to each other”. I see his point, but I think if it’s actually hurtful then it’s a joke taken too far. I’m sure he doesn’t mean to be but he can be such a twat sometimes.
Although I don’t think you can ever be 100% over someone, I think I am like 95%. Yesterday I saw some pictures on his Facebook of him and his girlfriend hugging each other and I was waiting to feel some emotion but I didn’t feel anything. I’m done with him.
Well I say that but today when he was “giving me banter” I was upset with him (although I didn’t say anything, as per) yet five minutes later we were the best of friends again. I forgive him waaay too easily. But I’m really starting to see the side of him that my friends saw long before I did.1 notes / 1 year ago / reblog